“Deep Democracy is supposed to involve openness to other individuals, groups and diversity. It includes feelings, dreams, body symptoms, altered states of consciousness, synchronicities, and an awareness of signals, roles, and the structural dynamics of the interactions between the parties involved.” -Wikipedia
After working with this tool at Knowmads, I don’t think our group will ever be the same. It completely changed my perspective on group dynamics and processes. Especially, in regards to Role Theory.
The photo on the left shows just how much wisdom the minority of any group, or society as a whole, has to offer.
Tracing history back to empires, where about .0001% of potential knowledge is taken into consideration and feudal systems where about .0005% of knowledge is used, and even democracy, where the majority (51%) wins, these methods are just the tip of the iceberg.
Developed by physicist Arny Mindell and his process work, Deep Democracy is based off the Jungian psychology that states democracy just may not be enough to achieve a real majority that is required to ‘keep people on the bus.’ In other words, when the minority loses, they will tread the ‘terrorist line.’ A person becomes a “terrorist” when they become uncomfortable with a decision that is made. Here is a diagram that explains how a covert terror attempt becomes a full-blown war within a group:

Here are the steps to take in order to dig deeper into what is called ‘fishing.’ These steps are taken in an attempt to find those deep emotions, or “fishes” that are in the subconscious of every group.
Step 1
Don’t practice Majority democracy!
In other words, go beyond the regular majority vote. The next steps allow this to happen.
Step 2
Make it safe to say ‘NO’
When other people feel uncomfortable with their true feelings because of group pressure, they are never truly heard. Thus begins the resentment and jokes that enter the terrorist line. Once you, as a facilitator are able to make it safe to say ‘NO,’ true emotions can emerge.
Step 3
Spread the ‘NO’
Have you ever been in a meeting and been brave enough to really say what you thought and felt like a complete asshole afterwards? This next step helps prevent that brave person to not feel so alone. Role theory, which I will touch upon later, proves that these people are usually never alone. Most of the time, if you can relate to this experience,
Giving us a menu of theory, practice, tools, and exercises we could use, Moraan Gilad did a great job hosting the workshop. By using this menu full of options that allowed us to choose the structure of the workshop, we were able to practice facilitating the technique ourselves. On the final afternoon, she showed us her expert skills as we went fishing as a group using the ‘soft shoe shuffle,’ an on-your-feet exercise that magnifies the feeling people had toward the group regarding some pretty sensitive subjects. She did a great job fishing, but left me with a burning question:
Now that we’ve caught the fish, what do we do with it?
To be continued….











