My “Mastermind Group”

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There is a website I really like called Marc and Angel Hack Life: Practical Tips for Productive Living. In an article entitled How to Achieve Your Goals, one tip they recommend is having a support group of like-minded people who share similar goals as you that you meet with once a week to help each other self-reflect, gauge progress, and create an overall positive energy. This is what I see Knowmads as. Although I’m not incredibly clear on a definitive list of shared goals, it’s great to be in a group that shares similar values, principles, and a drive to live the life we love by “combining passion, business, and playful learning.”

As I’ve been preparing for a workshop in conjunction with the Hub Amsterdam for their Summer Learning Festival, I’ve spent my past few weeks developing some tools that may be utilized in our workshop. Together with my mastermind partners in crime Naomi, Oscar, Fran, and Manu, we’ve used each other to create more self-awareness in each other. Whether we were making lists of what we want to have, be, or do, interviewing each other, creating questions without worrying so much about the answers, or writing a love letter to ourselves, I have cherished this recent Sunday ritual. So, I’d like to dedicate this post to these people, who pick me up after long weeks. I love you all.

As we enter a break from Knowmads and I tackle the Social Innovation Safari, travel to Sweden for a Vipassana Medition Retreat, and visit a special someone in Oslo, I sit writing this on a Sunday. It’s my first Sunday in a month without my “mastermind group.” As I was thinking about them and surfing one of my favorite life-hacking sites, I found a new Sunday ritual to keep me going: 20 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Sunday.

Finally, if you are in the Amsterdam area between the 25-28 of August and would like to more about our Knowmadic Learning Lab, check out the previous link, and stay tuned for a new blog dedicated to living, learning, and loving. As for now, check out my fellow Knowmadic friend Naomi’s blog called just that. I love the learnings she shares.

Keep Calm and Carry On, everybody.

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Sustainability? The Natural Step…

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Recently at Knowmads, in a day-long workshop on Sustainability, we learned about The Natural Step. Founded in 1989 by Dr. Karl-Henrik Robèrt in Sweden, The Natural Step has been introduced to thousands of organizations as a means of creating a more globally-conscious society. Based on theory and research of the science behind the true meaning of sustainability, it aims to apply this theory into practice using the following framework:

This framework is based on the following four system conditions that positively develop people, planet, and profit:

In a sustainable society, nature is not subject to systematically increasing:

  1. concentrations of substances extracted from the Earth’s crust;
  2. concentrations of substances produced by society;
  3. degradation by physical means and, in that society,
  4. people are not subject to conditions that systematically undermine their capacity to meet their needs.

With that, I close with a question that I’ve been asking myself lately:

What is the natural step for you in your journey and how can you live life more fully while making a more positive impact not just on yourself, but also for the world?

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Kennisland Social Innovation Safari

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“Kennisland (Knowledgeland) contributes to a smarter Dutch society. We believe that the best guarantee for future prosperity and welfare, now and in the future, is to strengthen our knowledge society. We help to realise this national goal by developing and delivering key interventions.

Kennisland is an independent think tank. We continuously search for ways to spark the social innovations needed to improve the knowledge society. We start by defining challenges for the Dutch knowledge society and creatively finding possible answers to them. We put these issues on policymakers’ agendas. We need that leverage: broad challenges require a broad approach. But that is not all: we also develop and deliver projects, programmes and platforms to help others fix the issues at hand. We also assist in scaling and transferring success results and knowledge about the ins-and-outs of social innovation, to help others forward.”

This above excerpt was taken from the website of Kennisland, which is hosting a Social Innovation Safari beginning just hours before the World Cup championship tomorrow. Working in small teams prototyping and developing interventions and innovations for four different organizations, 28 very diverse pioneers are coming together from all over the world. See the link above to check out all the participants and the cases we will be working on. Below is the promotional video, in case you’re a more visual type. That’s all for now, I’m off to prepare my five minute Tedx talk, safari-style!

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Deep Democracy

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“Deep Democracy is supposed to involve openness to other individuals, groups and diversity. It includes feelings, dreams, body symptoms, altered states of consciousness, synchronicities, and an awareness of signals, roles, and the structural dynamics of the interactions between the parties involved.”                                                                     -Wikipedia

After working with this tool at Knowmads, I don’t think our group will ever be the same. It completely changed my perspective on group dynamics and processes. Especially, in regards to Role Theory.

The photo on the left shows just how much wisdom the minority of any group, or society as a whole, has to offer.

Tracing history back to empires, where about .0001% of potential knowledge is taken into consideration and feudal systems where about .0005% of knowledge is used, and even democracy, where the majority (51%) wins, these methods are just the tip of the iceberg.

Developed by physicist Arny Mindell and his process work, Deep Democracy is based off the Jungian psychology that states democracy just may not be enough to achieve a real majority that is required to ‘keep people on the bus.’ In other words, when the minority loses, they will tread the ‘terrorist line.’ A person becomes a “terrorist” when they become uncomfortable with a decision that is made. Here is a diagram that explains how a covert terror attempt becomes a full-blown war within a group:

Here are the steps to take in order to dig deeper into what is called ‘fishing.’ These steps are taken in an attempt to find those deep emotions, or “fishes” that are in the subconscious of every group.

Step 1

Don’t practice Majority democracy!

In other words, go beyond the regular majority vote. The next steps allow this to happen.

Step 2

Make it safe to say ‘NO’

When other people feel uncomfortable with their true feelings because of group pressure, they are never truly heard. Thus begins the resentment and jokes that enter the terrorist line. Once you, as a facilitator are able to make it safe to say ‘NO,’ true emotions can emerge.

Step 3

Spread the ‘NO’

Have you ever been in a meeting and been brave enough to really say what you thought and felt like a complete asshole afterwards? This next step helps prevent that brave person to not feel so alone. Role theory, which I will touch upon later, proves that these people are usually never alone. Most of the time, if you can relate to this experience,

Giving us a menu of theory, practice, tools, and exercises we could use, Moraan Gilad did a great job hosting the workshop. By using this menu full of options that allowed us to choose the structure of the workshop, we were able to practice facilitating the technique ourselves. On the final afternoon, she showed us her expert skills as we went fishing as a group using the ‘soft shoe shuffle,’ an on-your-feet exercise that magnifies the feeling people had toward the group regarding some pretty sensitive subjects. She did a great job fishing, but left me with a burning question:

Now that we’ve caught the fish, what do we do with it?

To be continued….


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on energy and ‘doing’

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Doing is what I came to Knowmads to learn.

Energy is what I’m constantly exploring in myself and the world around me.

After a not so recent walk along the beach in Tel Aviv with a friend and spiritual mentor, Tsi-la, I learned a very beautiful metaphor for approaching each day. It is about energy renewal and the recent feeling of leaving a certain honeymoon period with my new company and school that I’ve spent the last two months getting started up.

Tsi-la says it’s about being an egg.
It’s wrapping yourself in blue, or whatever color you’re feeling, and filling yourself with gold. What does she mean by this? She explained to me that you must start with creating a solid and centered core filled with a gold that holds you strong so that you won’t fall, but also a gold strong enough to push out into the world; keeping in mind that gold must shine through the colorful filter that you wrap around yourself.
I asked her why you need a filter and why must it be colorful? She told me that the filter helps protect all that gold that you’ve filled yourself up with, strong for the day. It allows everything that helps the gold grow stronger, all the positive energy you’re given, and screens out any sign of something viral that may arouse feelings of fear, anger, hurt, resentment, jealousy, guilt, etc. All the lousy things, basically.
After learning this, I also came to the conclusion that the filter can also catch things and keep them stuck– like cheese in a cheese grater. Your filter  should be strong enough to shelve these feelings, and look at them later when you are able to handle them. Even better, perhaps these feelings will melt away after awhile, using a little soap and hot water, the filter might be able to wash these things out once you realize that it’s not worth the battle later.
If I just take one day at a time, stress seems to cross my path much less frequently. There is one thing I’ve recently stopped doing that has reduced about 80% of the negative energy that sucks my day up. That one thing has been making to-do lists. The past few months have kept me so busy doing things that making a list of them just didn’t seem practical anymore. I attached so much negative energy towards these lists that never seemed to end, so I finally just stopped doing them, and man does it feel great!
Instead of to-do lists, I now make have-done lists instead. It was a piece of advice given to me by quite a few people and I like them much more. The things that you have done today rather than a list of things to-do. When it comes to time management, I’ve found To-do lists the most impractical things ever at this point. I always end up disappointed with what I didn’t accomplish that day. I first tried three important things a day, prioritizing my to do lists by size, and numerous other ‘to-do list techniques,’ but in the end I think I’ll stick to these have-done lists. It makes me realize just how much I have accomplished instead of what I haven’t. I think it’s a much better way to end each day.
It reminds me of what my most hospitable host, Gili, wrote to me in my notebook upon my departure from a great visit to Israel that marked the start of a new friendship:
I give thanks for this perfect day.
Today is a day of completion.
Miracles shall follow miracles,
and wonders shall never cease to exist.

to today, everyone!

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Two More reasons “Art School” is the next “dream” school:

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In a recent blog post, Three Reasons I think “Art School” is the next “Dream School,” I wrote about why I think creativity, essentially, is the biggest factor that determines the (personal) leadership styles required in 21st Century Education. Recently, I read a tweet that states that creativity is the most needed leadership quality required in 2010. I didn’t open it, but I don’t think creativity is not just a fad of the current times.
Creativity is required for the present and future as we catapult into an emerging era of excess and abundance of resources of multi-dimensional degrees.

Two questions emerged from these thoughts as I put together that blog post:
Who is the artist?
What is the role of art and the artist in the 21st Century?
After exploring who I perceived as an artist, I determined three qualities essential to the thriving century nouveau Picasso:
  • “feeling,” or rather, giving meaning to
  • “creating” an authentic and balanced life in order to navigate through the required
  • transformation,” or ability to flow, along the basic priciples of Liquid Modernity.
To further explore the story of these qualities, I pose two more traits:
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World Cafe; harvest

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So, I’ve decided it’s about time to put up another blog post. The first draft of this has been sitting in my drafts folder on my blog for weeks, since I last blogged. For many reasons, I just haven’t made updating a priority in the past few weeks. It’s ok to take a break, of course, but what I’ve come to realize is that not everything can be perfect. I admit this isn’t the perfect harvesting example, but I’ve decided to just let it go and stick to my blogging rule #1: It’s ok to be shitty.
Not everything I do can be perfect and I think that’s what makes an entrepreneur an entrepreneur. The ability to try, or prototype, something and know that it will be better next time. Maybe it won’t, but either way, if I did everything perfectly I’d never get a blog post done. Not to say that this harvest is horrible, but….
I am currently reporting from Paris, where I was sent for 24 hours to experience the KLM flying experience for our current project with them on the extended office. It’s been a period of extreme acceptance, growth, and challenge. I’m beginning to regain my strength. I will elaborate more on this as well as the KLM assignment in the next days. For now, however, I continue with a blog post that I started weeks ago. Like many things that have happened to me over the past few weeks, I feel a great weight lifted after pressing the publish button.
In a not so recent World Cafe , a social technology similar to Open Space and the Art of Hosting, Knowmads was honored to have as a special guest/host/learning sojourner Pieter Ploeg a.k.a. pietradelmundo.
As a collective intelligence tool, World Cafe was created to to create and harvest conversations that matter.
The first blog post introduced the creation of the space, this blog post focuses on what’s left of the beautiful conversation that was created. Here is a visual of what we harvested:

Based on the question: Given the state of the world, what and how do you want to learn for a better future? Read the rest of this entry »
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Is “art school” the next “dream school?”

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When asked to write a piece of text for the Knowmads blog in the upcoming “what our students say” section, this is what I wrote:

“Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain one once he grows up.”

“Picasso said this and Knowmads attempts to solve the struggles an individual has in creating a life of purpose by giving them the necessary experience, creativity, and individual responsibility needed to succeed in a world that is changing at an extremely rapid rate. Because of this, the traditional four year degree is outdated within a year of graduation. As a student with a background in experimental, experiential, and artistic education, conforming to the typical university system just wasn’t an option for me. For a true individual seeking to transcend conformity and give more meaning to life, Knowmads is for you. Because It’s not about creating parts to your life; it’s about creating your part in life. Welcome Home!”

So, your first question may be:
Who is the artist? In my eyes, the artist is a human being who combines passion, work, and playful learning. The artist has a spiritual core, a fearless exterior, and uses their creativity, or imagination, to make a difference in the world they’ve created.


The next question I’m attempting to gain more insight on is: “what is the role of art and the artist in the 21st Century?” I believe that the artist can be used as the perfect analogy of what is required of educating leaders in this era of socio-economic complexity. Here are 3 reasons why: Read the rest of this entry »

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Notes on a Pilgrimage: “everything is “alleged” here.”

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If I could give one theme to my life, Pilgrimage would be it. I see it as a broad way to view life as one long learning journey. I see it as a slow accretion of details; of knowledge and experience. I believe that by going slow, being present in each moment,  lies the key to going “fast,” if you will. By taking the time to reflect and discover more of who you are and what you want to get out of this lifetime, dreams can be realized.
My dream is to live that sort of “life on pilgrimage” approach; to view each moment as bringing with it a new possibility.
Easter Sunday in Jerusalem brought with a new possibility, but not the possibility I has hoped for, exactly. It was a disappointing experience, to say the least. Perhaps I didn’t prepare enough for what I expected would be one of the most moving days to visit such a sacred site. Did I attempt to give it enough meaning for myself? To be honest, I really couldn’t find a way to make it “special”. Besides, I think to myself, what is “special” supposed to mean, anyways?
Perhaps, there were just too many shiny objects in the way for me to see what was really there. I was completely blown away by the amount of commercialism I found. Entering the Church of the Holy Sepulcre, people fought past each other mercilessly in an attempt to rub personal amulets against a rock where Jesus was “allegedly” crucified on.
It was a huge church; constructed around a rock. Enamored with expensive gold objects and artifacts telling the story of a simple man who loved the world so much, he made the ultimate sacrifice of letting go. Observing the masses of mourning pilgrims, a feeling comes over me. A tingle that slides down my spine bone. It’s the same sort of tingly goose-bumpy feeling that I got upon entering the grounds of the Vatican City. As my mother describes it:
“it’s the sort of feeling you get when you know you’ve come “home”, to a place that has been touched.”

Touched by what, though? What’s wrong with just having a rock in the middle of a room? What’s wrong with letting that be “enough?” What does “home” actually look like, anyways? Would Jesus have created this sacred space in the same way humanity has attempted to? Someone, or many people, have said:
“there is just enough religion in this world to create hate, but not quite enough to create love.”

Perhaps that’s true. The whole experience has left me feeling off balance, jaded, and questioning everything I ever thought travel, life, and belief was supposed to mean. In Jerusalem, international territory, finding co-existing means police barricades, weapons around every corner, and vendors hawking goods and services in your face; I can’t help but feel that there has to be more.
Within the narrow confines of the old city, women in hajibs wander between bare-shouldered babes from the Western world as old orthodox men ogle past to wail their wishes to the wall. Colorful scarves, tapestries, and t-shirts billow in the wind, from the light entering the labyrinth of the old city. Something seems eerily ersatz with the scene. Read the rest of this entry »
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Notes on a pilgrimage: Palestine

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After a long night in Tel Aviv, the White City, I found myself in the back of an Israeli police car. Within two hours of my departure from the airport. With two other Americans and a Portuguese South African girl, who was wearing a miniskirt shorter than my bandana. We ran out of gas. Jet-lagged, I am still amused as we push the car across three lanes of speeding traffic at two in the morning. The girl in the short skirt and heels longer than my forearm? Not as much. After spending two hours at the airport checkpoint trying to pick me up, the three of them were definitely not when the the flashing lights appeared. This only heralded more glorified authority figures. This was something they had become very accustomed to.
Driving a car owned by a Palestinian Israeli with expired plates and no insurance didn’t make the matter any better. For my friends, working as teachers for the “other side” means developing an elaborate lie at every checkpoint. When they are in Israel, their complete lives are a lie. Luckily, the short skirt is a long enough veil to cover our story as we get towed off the freeway and are brought gas- free of charge. We are happy the police helped us “Western” tourists out. We breathe easy and decide that, by four a.m., going out is no longer worth it. Speeding off, we pass without problem past a checkpoint entering Ramallah. I now feel part of a secret. I can feel the big elephant in the room, but it’s dark and I am speechless. Seeing parts of it only make it harder to give words to it’s enormous presence.
It’s an eerie experience that I can finally say I’ve come to “know.” Whatever that actually means. After the brief stay is said and done, I ask, where can I find my truth in it all? I feel baffled and brainwashed by this situation. After leaving Jerusalem on Friday to go back to where my friend Curtis is in the West Bank, I find myself breathing better and experiencing a hospitality that I will not easily forget. The people are kind, the police don’t intimidate, and I feel like I’ve left the situation knowing a lot less than I did before. After writing all of this, I feel I’ve processed something. I’m content with the confusion, the complexity of the situation. I know nothing, actually.
Having dinner with Curtis, his friend Kaitlin from Reno, and her Palestinian-American boyfriend, I feel like I could live here for another forty years and still not completely understand  everything that is happening here. This is just a taste and I’ve savored as much as I can for now, but this is a seven-course French dining experience, and I’ve only tried the appetizer. Hearing the verbal portraits of persecution and experiences from the Palestinian, I am numb. Recalling bits and pieces from his memory of the uprising, running from bullets, and throwing stones at strangers entering his sacred land finds me frozen. Sleeping until late in the morning, I sweat out a fever and awake from a horrible nightmare. Little did I know, that I would soon be entering a new dream, a glimpse into another world.
This one, much more real, however. I get a call from the American girl I had dinner with the previous night. She invites me to paint Palestinian children’s faces at a nearby refugee camp she volunteers at. In the taxi on the way there, I ask her why she does this:
“It’s a way to make at least a little instant change. To make a place a little better than before. It’s a place where the children know they can’t leave, but can’t fathom why. They simply want to go to the beach, but the beach is impossible. The beach is in Tel Aviv. Tel Aviv is a world away.”
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Each week, she goes there to the delight of dozens of children whose biggest requests are a very patriotic flag of Palestine, but also rainbows, flowers, and kitten faces. We had a great afternoon together and I became an expert at painting a Palestinian flag and learning the colors in Arabic. The situation is complex at best. It’s complicated to most from the outside.
Passing through the barren border today, I lost my coins in the metal detector that lacked baskets, showing my ID to a windowed soldier. Catching the next bus to Jerusalem, without coins, I was paid for by the Palestinian gentleman in front of me who helped me through the degrading border crossing. After leaving the scene? I can only determine that healing the situation requires justice and dignity; rightfully served to each “side.”  A “no one is right, no one is wrong” approach must be taken. As I leave Jerusalem, I say a silent prayer at sunset and board the bus towards Tel Aviv, the New York City of the Middle East. Nightfall curves along the mountain pass as the lights of the city signal my arrival.
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